Stop hurting and create the marriage you want. Breeze through difficult discussions and avoid the expense and pain of divorce!
You are already aware it's a stressful time in the world. Divorce inquiries have increased and so have domestic violence calls in the United States. If you can't figure out your marriage, divorce is going to cost at least $23,000.
We also know MOST counseling FAILS. Often the counselor appears to choose sides, creating a win/lose environment, which damages the relationship further. Often, they just don't know proven processes that work - typically talk therapy does not work for marriage solutions with couples. More destruction occurs, separations happen, patterns continue.
Our Marriage Intensive is grounded in a proven process, one we've seen help many couples in seemingly hopeless situations.
Nina Roesner, PCC, and her team of certified coaches take you and your spouse through deepening your relationship with God, yourself, and each other. Most couples just want to STOP THE CONFLICT - we'll teach you how to do that, yes. But did you know that is NOT enough? Research done by the University of Washington shows that unless you build in VERY SPECIFIC positive situations (and a bunch of them!!), you will NOT have a marriage that brings you and your spouse the connection and joy you seek.
We help you do those proven things - and we walk with you to help you implement them.
Because there is NO condemnation in Christ Jesus, each person in the marriage is encouraged to try something different, without blame, while the coach stays focused on being a neutral party and facilitating Wins for both spouses, the marriage, and God. We view each person in the marriage with respect as precious to God - equally.
MOST marriage counseling is painful - our process is NOT. In our opinion, too much time is spent rehashing unsolvable problems from the past. Coaching focuses on the forward movement of the marriage, creating the life you want together, learning new ways of interacting by trying new skills in the moments they are needed. These methods are proven to have a positive impact in your daily lives. Yes, we work through hurts from the past, but not in the way therapy or counseling does - we connect with the Lord and allow His healing to transform us.
The average costs of counseling in the United States runs between $60-125/hour. That is a lot to pay when you aren't sure of the results. Most couples meet weekly with their counselor spending their time and money getting the counselor up to speed with the history of their relationship. Coaching is different. We begin forward moving work from the start.
No matter how long you have been married, or what stage of life you are in, you will face difficulties. How you choose to navigate those challenges will impact your marriage and family either positively or negatively. We know what works and can help you and your spouse develop the habits needed to make lasting positive change a reality for your marriage.
Since 2006 we haven't been just teaching people how to communicate to create deeper connections; we have walked with them. Thousands of people have deepened their relationships with God and transformed their personal relationships. How did they do it? The answer is simple - they practiced with expert guidance. They've learned new methods of interacting and praying and have changed their outcomes.
What will your life be like in 3 months, 3 years, 30 years, if you don't act NOW? You can bet things will get worse. Is that what you want for your kids and grandkids?
Schedule your free call, work with your coach, and begin creating the marriage you want today!